to make or take any decision...
For, every decision has so many threads attaching it to various people; some may be long, some may be short, some may be thick, and some may be thin, some may be visible, but some may be invisible. The thing is we're all connected in some way or another, and so a decision has the power to send its ripples across the ether...and that's why it's so important not to be casual about a decision...somewhere, someone is going to be affected in some way or other.....
So, decide gently, for you never know whose dreams or whose life or whose space you may be trampling on...leave one tiny little opening, so that you can resolve/change/modify/or even withdraw your decision if need be.