those who claim to love you cannot do so unconditionally, totally, non-judgmentally, and non-critically, it is better to find your own haven.......you cannot leave a situation for whatever reason or compulsion or whatever.....but you can within that create and build your own refuge-sanctuary-retreat.....and believe me, it works....
In the same breath - if you love someone, then do so unconditionally, totally, non-judgmentally and non-critically....
And again in the same breath - if the person you love so, cannot reciprocate likewise, for whatever reason, build your own beautiful retreat, for it is more important to be true to yourself, than to be someone else....changing yourself to be accepted, loved, recognized......
Everyone has a place under God's good sun...