Independence of spirit....without becoming hard
Charity of heart..........without becoming judgemental
Openness of mind..........without losing perspective
Physical fitness..........without becoming a fanatic
Mental agility..........without rationalizing
Spiritual strength............without becoming self-righteousse
Respect of self.........without becoming selfish
Courageousness in all areas of life..........without becoming over-cautious
Cherish truth..............without becoming hurtful
The capacity to find happiness and love in all things..........without fear
Please feel free to add to this.....only we know what is in the depths of our hearts and only we can fix it...