Change...
We all know that there are aspects in us that need to be changed....we also know when things don't work out, that change is required - in our attitude, in our behaviour, in our thinking, or in the way we are. We cannot hold how we were in the past as our point of reference, because the context was different then...the context keeps changing...every day and maybe many times a day....and so we have to bring about, effect changes in us, as and how and whenever, so that we feel happy and satisfied at the way we are---for it is only and only and only then that we can bring happiness to those who we love and who love us.