of life.
Gracefulness--How we comport ourselves...there has to be elegance, refinement, and dignity in all that we do...every movement of ours. We need to work towards having an easy, flowing personality...
Graciousness--How we speak, how we act towards others, and, indeed, even our attitude to ourselves. Graciousness implies politeness, good manners, good taste, civility (tact and propriety) in our talk and behaviour, courteousness at all times, and well-mannered and respectful, no matter what the occasion, or situation, or who we are talking with. Graciousness has to be the hallmark of all our dealings too, even if they are fraught with unpleasantness. A generosity of spirit is a deep element of graciousness...
Gratefulness--Appreciative of and thankful for gifts or favors received. Warm and deeply appreciative, too, of kindnesses or benefits received. A smile and thank you to God and man goes a long, long way in making us beautiful...