The babe here is my DD. Periodically she gives me these lessons in life culled from her wisdom...
She won't brook any excuses, she won't consider any Mum-suited options.....she has the solutions, and, since 'they work for me, so there's no reason they won't work for you' is her final word, it is in my own interest to force my aging grey cells to heed her.....
and
believe me-------------------------they work!!!!
Life's strange ways...