I am...
I think I'll go with something I read today in my Kabbalah newsletter, since this is the biggest concern I face...
Am I going to be a victim, and let feelings of hurt, bitterness, regret, sorrow, dim my life, thereby making me act like a victim...
or
Am I going to be a victor, and let the spark in me take over, since that spark belongs to Him who made me and knows all about me, thereby making me act like a victor in all situations...
No one is or can be right all the time...good things don't happen all the time...
But, there is no need to crouch and crawl - there is only need to recognize all things, and walk tall and straight...