In all the pictures that we create in the frames of our lives, there have to be lines - these lines are terribly important, in that we must try not to cross them - lines between people (you have to recognize the validity of your life), events (the good, the bad, and the ugly), happenings (planned and unplanned, small and large), in everything....otherwise the picture will only be a blotch - the clarity and consequently the beauty of the colors, (including the black parts) will go. Remember the blacks and the blanks add to the shape. One doesn't want one's life to be a smudge...