for you are the star of your life.
Be honest with yourself - go deep into those parts of your soul where all kinds of things are jam-packed, where maybe a coverlet has been thrown over a jumble of things, where you fear to go in case you come face-to-face with the issues you've been deferring in the hope that they will go away...
Be truthful to yourself - take out, look at, and face the deepest motives for your actions...
Be compassionate with yourself - forgive yourself, and forgive those who caused pain/upheaval/unpleasantness. Allow healing to happen...
Be responsible to and for yourself...in leaning on others, you will never learn how you tick...
Be grateful...for everything - the good, the bad, and the ugly...everything happens for a reason, so look beyond...
Be at peace with yourself - It's okay to be good, bad and ugly....just make sure you handle them as they should be handled, so that you are always in sync with every aspect and part of yourself...
Be comfortable with who you are - you were meant to be you and not somebody else...
You really ARE the star in your life...