Choose life...
Our choices are made in the circumstances we find ourselves in - and they are the best in those circumstances.....viewed a few years down the line, they may not seem so, but then you again have the choice of either bemoaning that or making new choices.
Choices can never be separated from all the parties, the condition in which the choice is being made, touches....sure, you can say to hell with everyone, this is my life...but then you should also be ready to bear the consequences of that choice.
Consequences are inbuilt into every choice we make....even the tiniest and seemingly innocent choice has its consequences.....
And so the final question is are you willing to take responsibility for your life...for life is all about choices.....
You can never, ever condemn anyone for the choices they make unless you are prepared to walk in their moccasins...and live their lives.
What you can do, is support and love all those you know who have had to make difficult life-changing choices...