you find yourself in a position to help anyone, never ever think that the help you give automatically allows you a right over that person...
Thing is, freedom is something that we all - every single person no matter what position or place we have in society - treasure and guard with all our might. There are many, many of us who may not have any obvious freedom - but we all have the freedom of our spirit and soul - that is something noone can ever ever take away from us.
Should we find someone who we can help - by all means help...help all the way....but then leave it there......and allow that person to regain the freedom of his/her spirit...never - ever - ever let that person feel beholden to you in any way...ever....for by that much you take away-destroy that person's freedom of spirit and that is something no person will or can forgive-----even the most downtrodden of people will not forgive t