Whenever anything happens that seems contrary to what I feel should be...these words pop into my heart - What is happening is as it should happen - now if I accept this, no matter how dreadful, or frightening, or discouraging, or disheartening, or whatever the emotion may be... , I instantly feel better. If I flutter against these words, I end up getting entangled in a mess that results only in disaster...
At all times we have to aim not to disturb the underlying harmony of our lives, or even cause it to be temporarily hidden.